Patience. It's a virtue, one of the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), and a commendable character quality.
The Cambridge English Dictionary describes patience as, "The ability
to accept delay, suffering, or annoyance without complaining or becoming
angry." But, like so many good things, because of our human [sinful] nature it is often far easier to choose impatience. It seems we often try to help God out when He doesn't do things in our time frame instead of remembering that our all-knowing God's timing is always best.
Abram and Sarai are examples of the consequences of impatience: God promised them a son, Isaac. In their impatience they sought to help the Lord when, in their minds, He was taking too long; the strife from their decision lasts to this day in Middle East.
In Joseph, however, we have an example of the blessings of waiting patiently for God's perfect timing: Joseph was put into prison for something he didn't even do and forgotten by the chief butler for "two full years," but he didn't come out of prison an angry and bitter man. Yes, in a way he had to be patient since he could not free himself from prison, but you don't read accounts of him trying to get out, and according to what we read in the Bible he embraced the opportunities that were given him while he was in prison. And when the Lord did bring Joseph out of prison he was promoted to second in the entire kingdom.
"Restlessness and impatience change nothing except our peace and joy. Peace does not dwell in outward things, but in the heart prepared to wait trustfully and quietly on Him who has all things safely in His hands." ~Elisabeth Elliot
Lamentations 3:25-26
The LORD is good unto them that wait for Him, to the soul that seeketh Him.
It is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the LORD.
A friend once said something to the effect of, "I asked God for
patience.....don't do that." I don't know if was she was being entirely
serious or not, but I have to disagree with her. While learning patience
may not always be enjoyable, it is necessary. Psalm 37:7 says, "Rest in
the LORD, and wait patiently for Him: fret not thyself because of him
who prospereth in his way, because of him who bringeth wicked devices to
pass." And Psalm 27:14 "Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and He
shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD."
We
are commanded to love God and one another and part of love is patience:
1 Corinthians 13:4 "Charity suffereth long, and is kind..."
"Humility and patience are the surest proofs of the increase of love." ~John Wesley
A few additional references for verses having to do with patience: Ephesians 4:2; Proverbs 15:18; James 1:2-4, 1:19, 5:7-8; Colossians 1:11; Psalm 103:8; Psalm 145:8, Hebrews 10:36; Hebrews 12:1-3; Isaiah 40:31; Luke 21:19; 2 Peter 3:9; and 1 Timothy 6:11.